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In particular, the wedding night is the first night that a man and woman come together as husband and wife, and it is highly recommended that they form this. It's your first night as husband and wife. Sure, you're busy attending to guests, but take the time to meet each other's gaze, touch each other's arm or hand and. Waiting until your wedding night to have sex for the first time can be a sort of lonely spot. While choosing to be a virgin till marriage is a.
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This is just the start of a lifetime journey. On top of that, I am seven years older than her. All I had to work with were the stories told by the relatives. By the way, she is my first cousin.
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Our first night was so awkward. She was so silent. When we started doing the act, I had to stop because it was too painful for her. And then nothing happened that night, the first night after arranged marriage.
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But after two weeks, she was already comfortable with me and since then, we always have steamy and sweaty sex. Contrary to common beliefs, two people who are under arranged marriages are usually given enough time to know each other so that they can be comfortable with each after getting married. Mine went on just fine. We slept our first night away because the wedding and reception made us too tired.
Besides, I did not have orgasm the first time we had sex but it happened on a train during our honeymoon. Today, we have a lot of kids to prove that sex in our marriage was fun and not awkward. During our first night, she kept on hiding under the blanket and giggling. I didn't want to rush things or startle her, so nothing happened.
The next day, her mom called her and they were on the phone for almost thirty minutes. That night, while we were watching TV, she confessed that she was just not really sure what to do. I smiled and started kissing her.
I tried to keep the mood light by joking a bit until finally we were actually doing it. We have two kids now. There are some etiquette rules according to Sunnah about how to perform marital duties: Then he came and I called him to see her in all her beauty. He came and sat next to her. He was brought a large cup that contained milk. He drank and then handed it to her. She lowered her head and was shy. She took it and drank some. He should place his hand upon the front part of her head at the time when he first starts to approach her or after that.
He should mention the name of Allah Almighty and then pray for blessings, and then say the supplication that was taught to us by the Prophet SAW: I ask of you the good of her and the good of what you have placed in her nature, and I seek refuge with you from the bad in her and the bad that you have placed in her nature.
Shaykh al-Albaani may Allah have mercy on him said: Bless me with her affection, love and her acceptance of me; and make me pleased with her, and bring us together in the best form of a union and in absolute harmony; surely You like lawful things and dislike unlawful things.
May Allah always guide us on the straight Path.